My ex moved overseas and we were meant to move over a few months ago but on boxing day got a text mesage saying he wanted to separate after 15 years and two kids.
He takes stilnox regularly and has come back in feb and jun/jul and want some the family back and then. In September states his got a new partner that lives in a different country to him.
He has only seen the kids for 39 hrs in nearly 12 months.
He wants 50/50 of the children but comes back to our country and the new partner lives ten minutes away from us and doesn’t even tell them his in the country and spend all his time with her. He states he loves them and misses them but never puts them first. I don’t get it. The kids try to ring him But he never returns there calls.
We are going to court and I find it hard not to fight for my kids as they require routine and structure and as he doesn’t live in the country he doesn’t have a place of residency. No family near by either.
The kids are both very active and I’m a coach and manager of there sports teams and we have tight routines to go from one thing to another as they are in different locations.
We never used to fight but now I can’t even have a conversation with him as he feels it’s his right to just rock up unannounced and expect me to change our plans. I don’t think it’s fair on the kids or myself as we need to start a new life as he has already moved on and the kids arent a priority.
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