By: Selenite Wing

Shannon why do you think the dad should have a right to cut the cord? Oh my goodness!!! Labour has got to be the most vulnerable experience you can have. I think letting him cut the cord would be more of a violation than rape.
I also think the early stages of parenting are extremely raw – especially the first 5 weeks!!!! She has just given birth!! And her body is recovering and attending the overwhelming needs of the baby – she does not need anyone demanding anything from her at this time!
I think while you’re still breastfeeding it’s a very sacred space for a woman and her child, interference is selfish. The emotional influence on the carer who needs to be in the best form that they can be should absolutely be protected.
He should be able to see the child when it’s a little more independent.
Women aren’t machines they don’t just pop babies out for men who can do whatever they need done emotionally for them, the welfare of children doesn’t work like that. If he cared about his boy, he would care about keeping the mum feeling safe for the first years rather than stressing her out taking her to court. By feeling safe, in this circumstance it seems by leaving her alone! I find his actions very self centered.